In a world that is louder, faster, and always telling you to be more and more, fit in - Here is a radical transformation that I am suggesting:

Stop copying. Start Remembering.

Remember who we are before any of these society pressure and expectation, everyone of us want the same thing; happiness and joy. Somehow along the journey we lost focus, we turned into the slave of the real world. There are so many choices out there that don’t serve your need, simply put, all of us want something from others and we create all these noise and desire.

There’s something about people who are different. Not fake different. Not trend-following different. But soul-level different. You know it when you see it. They walk into a room and don’t say much—but you feel their presence. Their energy doesn’t compete, it simply is. Calm. Certain. Clear.

I experience this with master teachers and coaches. They speak with confidence without too loud, their body language was full of love and caring, they don’t react to negativity, they are well groomed in their manners and full of lights.

That kind of presence isn’t manufactured. It’s born from one thing:

For many years I have learned to blend in. While this is not necessary bad at the right time, however, blending in doesn’t mean that you need to conform to dogma. Blending in is recognizing the reality and choose to stay with the truth, sometimes we need to speak up, more often than not we need to stay quiet, but recognizing when to do what in the right time requires maturity and clarity. Being different doesn’t mean trying hard to stand out—it means refusing to abandon your truth, even when it's inconvenient. Living a meaningful life and being successful means choosing the right path for YOU. First you need to know what the “right path” is, and it all start with having the courage to own who you truly are. Getting to know yourself is the key that lead to a successful life.

Success isn’t about how loud your life looks on the outside. Success is:

Ask yourself: What do I believe? What matters most to me?

Stop outsourcing your identity to trends, mentors, or followers. Many try to be different without knowing who they really are, very often asking the fundamental questions about your belief and priority can easily reveal your purpose.

I believe in balance, so I see things in yin and yang, not right or wrong. Everything that happens have an angle, we may not know the reasons but it doesn’t take away my belief that seeking balance is a healthy way of living in a society that full of

Unfollow those that make you question your worth. Create space to hear your own voice again.

I have my fair share of mistakes when comes to making the wrong choice. However the key is to learn from mistake and proceed with changes. There are lots of noise in the world we living in, most of it don’t contribute to the bettermen of your life. Take an inventory of habits, desires and relationship in your life, I am sure you can easily see cutting out a few bad habits and bad relationship make a big difference in immediate change in your life. There are those who want to see you success and would help you get there, but we are too busy with bad habits and relationship, which halting us from see the truth. Noise is what it is, it suppose to distract you from who you really are, so be very selective what you are after and who you spend time with.

Sometimes, the boldest thing you can do is not explain yourself. When your choices come from a place of deep alignment—not from a need for approval—you move with a different kind of power. Quiet. Grounded. Clear.

Acting from alignment means honoring what feels true, even when it’s misunderstood. It’s knowing when to speak and when to stay silent. It’s doing the right thing for you, even if it doesn’t make sense to others. This isn’t about being rebellious for the sake of rebellion. It’s about integrity. About choosing the path that honors your values, energy, and truth.

You don’t need to prove anything when you're already rooted. Your presence becomes your message.

This week, I invite you to do one thing differently:

Speak your truth.

Share your art.

Say no with grace.

Say yes to yourself.

You’ll be amazed at what unfolds when you stop trying to be someone else—and finally give the world a chance to meet you. If this message resonates, I’d love to hear your story—what makes you you? reply to me: [email protected]

Let your decisions reflect your truth, not their expectations.

Stop copying. Start remembering.